TONI WANTS TO KNOW, "I THINK I WOULD BE BETTER AT _____ IF I _____."
I think I would be better at LIFE if I HAD MORE FAITH.
My biggest 'failures' in this game of life have come when I stayed inside my little nest and did not venture out. Evidence the length of time it took me to come out of my shell for theatre's sake. I get angry sometimes when I look at the years I wasted doing other things. But I also realize I am not perfect and forgive myself for that and other failures. Yes, I could have done things differently and had a very different life. But I would not change my life now (with my family) for any amount of 'success' professionally. And the past is the past, right? I can't change it now, so I might as well take a look at things I can change.
My biggest 'successes' in life have come when I swallowed my fear, and took that extra step, most usually out of my comfort zone.
1. I saw that audition poster and went, even though I had no time to 'prepare'. As it happened, I got a part. Would it mean I failed if I had not gotten a role in the play? No. It would have been a 'not in this case' scenario.
2. I used to belong to a fraternal group called Job's Daughters. I entered a state-wide pageant for the group when I was a little older than most of the other contestants and had never held a leading officer position. I went on to represent the state in the international competition in Hawaii (talk about a bonus right there!)
3. My mother-in-law tried to get custody of our children when we just had the two boys. I was dealing with crippling depression at the time and could very well have thrown up my hands and surrendered. But I did not. They were my boys. I went to a lawyer and found out she did not have the standing to bring the case. After one hearing (which she missed), she dropped the case.
I'm not perfect. Far from it. But I'm pretty dang neat! And so are YOU! :O)
Could you share (in the comments) a time when you took a leap of faith and how it turned out? You might have the exact information another needs to hear today!